The register itself should not sit beside the metal plate that holds your seed. Yet successors need a path from “something happened” to “open this drawer.” Content Ashway uses a two-envelope system to split location from content.
Envelope A: Location hint
A small index card, stored in a household file your family already knows about. It states only where the register is kept—“floor safe, northeast corner, combination in attorney file.” No seeds, no passphrases.
Envelope B: Register storage
The bound register lives in its own pouch, in a separate physical context. Some clients use a bank box; others use a relative’s home with a standing agreement. The register’s inside cover repeats the rule: Envelope A holders may not know Envelope B’s location.
Why two paths
Couples often want one partner to find the register quickly while limiting how many people know both seed storage and register storage. The split reduces casual disclosure during dinner conversations.
Common mistake
Writing the safe combination inside the register that lives inside the safe. If the register is inaccessible, the combination is too. Keep combination hints in Envelope A or with your attorney.
We cover envelope labeling during register setup. Bring your intended storage plan—even if rough—and we will stress-test it on paper before you seal anything.